90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

Previously on Before The 90 Days The Couples Tell All...

Do you have any red flags?

We have a very difficult time communicating sometimes because one of us shuts down.

She's just like this with people sometimes.

No, I'm not, Statler. Don't try and make excuses.

You talk about how bad our sex is to your ex? That's bull bleep .

I don't see a problem being friends with them.

No, I have a big problem with it.

Jasmine was looking for some attention a little bit.

Come on.

The man is the head of the house

and women need to follow the men.

Not in this day and age.

Don't just feel like he's the only dude

just 'cause you've known him for seven years.

Please, just...

There's other fish in the sea.

She took the pregnancy test in front of you.

You did not trust that.

She lies. I've caught her in major lies.

Violet, can you tell me if you are pregnant with Riley's child?

Violet, are you pregnant with Riley's child?

I'm so sorry, Violet.

Just to be clear, you were pregnant with Riley's child.

Yes.

So, Riley, are you hearing some of these details for the first time?

She didn't tell me it was a miscarriage.

That's a lot.

How does it feel seeing Violet so upset right now?

I...

But I just... I'm kind of like...

Until I understand, I can't really emotionally attach to it.

As women, we have all been through stuff, so I'm feeling her.

Being pregnant with someone you're not really talking to, they're far away,

that's scary.

As far as the timelines, it's four weeks later,

I believe that it might have been yours.

And, Riley, you haven't been an angel to her either.

You also have your temper, you also have your issues, your own baggage.

I never said that I wanted to hold anything against her.

I told her I need to understand this

so I could accept it and move on.

Well, there was a lot to unpack here.

So, Riley, what is next for you?

Well, Violet is coming to the US.

- Oh, really? Okay. - Wow.

Okay, okay. Surprise.

She has a tourist visa, she got it on her own, it had nothing to do with me.

But she let me know that she will be in the States,

and I suggested that we all meet up.

You know, just to break bread and try to be kind to each other

and just hug it out.

You think there's a possibility

that they could get back together?

I totally could see it because you're still feeling something.

Would you like this meeting to end in you and Violet getting back together?

Not necessarily.

But if it's God's will, then it will be.

You're leaving the door open.

Wide open.

Windows, doors, French doors.

Listen, it's just a little bit of a crack to let her know that I don't hate you.

Well, we thank you for sharing your story.

And Violet, I know this was not easy for you.

Tiffanie, as always, you were very candid,

and honest, and we appreciate hearing your thoughts.

- Thank you. - Take care, Tiffanie.

Thank you, Tiffanie.

Riley and Violet, no matter what happens when you two meet again,

I hope you both find love in the future.

Thank you.

Okay, let's take a break.

Thank you.

After all this, okay?

And maybe I'm not the right person to tell you this.

All this toxicity, right?

Why I feel in my heart that you still want this to work?

I'm gonna tell you the truth.

Did you have a ring?

Oh, my God, Riley.

- Like, you were there. - Yeah.

In it. That much of love.

Because I didn't want to not...

My biggest fear is could have, would have, should have, if.

I know. I totally get that.

I didn't wanna come back home and be like,

"I wonder what would have happened if I...

Oh, if I could have done this!"

I was beat up with lies for two years.

Now I'm thinking back on it,

I tried to communicate with her

and tried to build something.

I just think that if we had better communication and honesty

from the get-go, um...

Yeah, I don't know.

Okay, everyone, they're ready for you back on set.

- We're coming. Let's go. - All right.

Okay.

Now, we are going to shift over to Christian and Cleo.

Christian's time in London with Cleo

had more than a few rocky moments.

But as we found out earlier, it wasn't enough to break them apart.

Have you seen each other since we last saw you together?

- We have-- - Three days ago.

Three days ago?

We were shacked up pretty good.

Yeah, she left my home just a few days ago.

We were together for about a month.

Okay, Cleo, did you meet Christian's family?

I actually did meet all of the women from Christian's family.

All the matriarchal line.

Yes, how did that go?

- Um, it went amazing. - Oh, my God.

They loved her.

Yeah. They really made me feel as a big part of the family.

And...

It's wonderful that you had a great time with the women.

Why did you meet just the women of the family and not any of the men?

Well, I can answer that.

Um, so, my family are masculine and conservative.

Uh...

A lot of hurtful things were said.

You know, "I can't believe you'd do this to me."

It was just a...

It was a rough thing, so I tried to shield Cleo from that.

And then hopefully avoid any type of situation

where they made her feel uncomfortable.

Yes.

Well, someone who has always accepted Cleo for who she is

is Cleo's friend Jane.

But whenever she would spend time with Christian,

she would notice red flags about him.

Jane is connecting with us now to share her major concerns

and tell us if she finally has accepted their relationship.

Please welcome Jane.

Hi, Jane, how are you?

- Thanks for joining us. - I'm good.

How do you feel about Christian today?

I mean...

It's a tough one. Um...

I do speak with Cleo,

and she is sharing when things are good and when things are bad.

Jane, I really appreciate what you're saying,

but I also feel that Christian and I have been on the verge

of really being able to understand each other better.

Yeah. Cleo and I have talked about it.

Um, we've talked about her boundaries and I have made changes.

Oh, my God.

Wait, how do you know

he's chatting with other girls, Jane?

Um...

What was the one incident?

Um, I mean, I...

You're not answering the question, though.

She doesn't wanna answer the question.

I will tell you what she's not saying.

I'm not introverted, I crave being out with people, talking and engaging.

And I don't see at all how anything that I said

could be conceived as flirting.

No, I'm not saying something's gonna happen with us,

but I have to protect myself.

This is the thing with a prenup.

You're gonna leave me unprotected, and I'm gonna be homeless.

Gino, did you ask your ex to sign a prenup?

I will tell you what she's not saying.

While she was staying with me,

I have this group called Steiner's Anonymous.

It's a Discord server where you can go

and you can put messages on a general chat board.

And there was a gal who joined and was pretty active.

I mean, she wasn't active, she was active with you.

And, yeah, it made Cleo extremely uncomfortable.

- And-- - Hold on, hold on.

It was that she made it really clear that she was interested in you,

and found you extremely attractive and--

Yeah, she called me cute.

She called me cute, and I said, "Thank you,

that's very nice of you to say."

Um, I wanna interact with people.

I don't think that is flirting.

I like making friends. I cast a very wide net.

I feel like you're trying to justify your actions.

Like you're making excuses instead of owning it.

I wouldn't justify it, I didn't feel like I was doing anything wrong.

Do you now?

Only because it affected Cleo.

Wrong answer.

Say, "What I did was wrong, and I'll do better."

I just don't see it.

All right, well, several times during his visit,

Cleo accused Christian of being overly flirty with other women.

Christian claimed that he was just being friendly.

Let's take a look back at those interactions

including extended footage never before seen.

Hey, excuse me. Are you guys celebrating something tonight?

Your birthday?

Twenty-six?

Is there any particular scotches that you could recommend?

- Come on. - Okay.

Well, all right, my friends. Happy birthday.